We were thinking about how to forgive few days ago; it was an interesting discussion and here is what I come up with:
When we think of a personal problem that we need to forgive; it's not easy to do so because our ego, our mind rationalise the problem with some 'if' and 'but' and all those good reasons that we feel betraid or hurt. We need to go beyond that, we need to put ourself in our heart and remind us that we are all one and we need to love instead of hate the person that caused our torments.
This is a difficult process I agree but we can do it; we need to dissolve those heavy chains that keeps us on the ground and in pain and let go in order to be able to fly again and to set us free.
Forgive and accept it how it is, we cannot change the past and we cannot live with it either.
There is no magical way to do it; it can and it will take some time but it's possible.
We all suffer from these kind of pain and in order to heal ourselves we have to forgive and be in peace in our heart.
When we think of a personal problem that we need to forgive; it's not easy to do so because our ego, our mind rationalise the problem with some 'if' and 'but' and all those good reasons that we feel betraid or hurt. We need to go beyond that, we need to put ourself in our heart and remind us that we are all one and we need to love instead of hate the person that caused our torments.
This is a difficult process I agree but we can do it; we need to dissolve those heavy chains that keeps us on the ground and in pain and let go in order to be able to fly again and to set us free.
Forgive and accept it how it is, we cannot change the past and we cannot live with it either.
There is no magical way to do it; it can and it will take some time but it's possible.
We all suffer from these kind of pain and in order to heal ourselves we have to forgive and be in peace in our heart.
[photo taken by my daughter - JUly 2010 Fly a kite]
